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Thursday, January 1, 2015

NSLI-Y Reunion: Part Four

Every year, a group of us who studied with NSLI-Y in Jordan way back in 2011 get together in Chicago  for New Year's - this year marked the fourth annual get-together! I'm just so grateful to have such a wonderful group of people that are always there, even when we don't get to see each other all the time. They are all doing such fantastic things, studying in Oman and Jordan and working with the State Department. I'm kind of the odd one out, as I've left the Middle East and headed south, they've all continued in their studies, exhausting the Arabic classes of the top universities in America, all essentially fluent in the language that we all started together, preparing to rule the world. (I'll just chill in the back with my siSwati skills, yo).

But, as we all know, the greatest thing you get from studying abroad is not the skills on paper, but rather the people, and the JO Crew is a group of people I wouldn't give up for anything. With all the craziness and travelling and feeling like a nomad without an anchor and whatnot, it's really nice to know that no matter what happens during the year, we're going to end it the same way that we started it - in Chicago, with hugs and laughter, surrounded by these people and love and happiness, and I am ever so grateful for that.

Photo credit: A. Gegios, my zoji :)

Friday, January 11, 2013

Safety in the NSLI-Y Countries

I keep hearing of parents who are concerned about sending their child to a NSLI-Y country, or want their kid to switch their ranking to put a "safer" country first. While all the NSLI-Y countries are really safe to study in, I'm only a NSLI-Y Jordan alumni, so I've asked alumni from each of the other NSLI-Y countries to talk a little bit about day-to-day safety concerns in their host country. Sometimes, as alumni, we tend to just say "it was totally safe!" without qualification. (Newsflash, abroad or not, ZERO countries are entirely safe).Hopefully this can be a resource for applicants and parents to see how safety varies between NSLI-Y countries, and how students make sure they have a safe study abroad experience.

I've included the alumni responses below, in alphabetical order by country. Bear in mind that each and every exchange student has a different experience, and while hopefully this is a starting point for discussion and thought for NSLI-Y applicants and parents, this is just one NSLI-Y student's experience from each country. Please comment if you have experience in a country, and would like to add onto any of these.

China - Eric B.

You needed to be aware of Chinese people taking advantage of you due to your lack of language ability or cultural understanding. Don't be alarmed, however, I've never once felt unsafe. Rather, they may rip you off regarding the price of an item, overcharge you on a taxi ride, or something else. It's just people being greedy, but not ever have they been violent.

As a foreigner in China, you stand out immensely. Because of this, eyes are typically always on you (people asking for pictures, looking at your unique physique, or people just wanting to practice their English with you). This is good because you are never really alone and will seldom have situations where you feel vulnerable - there's always safety in numbers.  Another thing is that the Chinese highlight foreigners like celebrities. For that reason, you will find that people are always willing to help you out (such as police officers), if you ever need it.

[Protests and political tensions] never affected my safety, I would say. Although political views sometimes differed, my Mandarin was not really at the level to engage in political debate... so you quickly learn the art of smiling and nodding.  Also, the Chinese concept of "saving face" is really important. In public, it would be a shame for a Chinese person to do anything that is unhonorable, because they would "lose face" or in other words hurt their reputation. That's why Chinese people are often so nice, because others's perception of them is very important in Chinese culture!

Yes, China was a foreign country, and yes, crime does occur. But, the NSLI-Y program would never put a student in an unsafe area, ever. Additionally, the Chinese government keeps crime in check with an iron fist, so crime is not as common as in the United States.

India - Eyal H.

As a student, I found that being aware of my surroundings and possessions was the most important safety concern in India (and quite frankly, the exact same advice would apply to an exchange student in New York City). Being careful about money, cameras, iPods, and phones was always my number one concern— over the course of my year abroad, I did a lot of independent travel around Delhi, but since I was careful to only stay in safe areas, I never had to worry about other threats.

I also found the stereotype about Indian parents to be very true while I was abroad: although you will almost always be with a host family member, sibling, or friend from your host country, your host parents will always keep track of where you are, ask for extensive plans, and in some cases cross-check those plans.

The US diplomatic presence in India, NSLI-Y, and my implementing organization alerted me to all areas of protest and political tension and did not allow me to go near them. While it was tempting for me to join the Anna Hazare anti-corruption protests, crowds in India can turn violent very quickly and without warning, and getting trampled is a serious issue. I would highly suggest to stay away from crowds because the risks of getting separated from friends, having personal items stolen, or getting injured far outweigh the benefits of participating in a demonstration. Standing in a crowded line to buy ice cream or riding the Metro during rush hour should suffice if you would like to experience the feeling of a crowd of sweaty and smelly people!

In regard to the recent rape in Delhi: your implementing organization will prepare you for what to expect both at a pre-departure orientation/gateway orientation and once you arrive in the country. It is very unfortunate that being a woman in India comes with such consequences, but by staying aware of your surroundings, you will stay absolutely safe. Indians on the street stare at all foreigners, and getting used to the "looks" and "catcalls" will all be part of the immersion experience, but something that you will barely notice by the time you leave the country.

Jordan - Yours Truly.

Amman was as safe as any American cities. You had to be aware of what was around you, but it was safe to walk around at night, and 99% of people are friendly, and would help you if you needed help.

Taking cabs, women always sit in the back, while men can sit in the front. Women also are expected to wear long skirts or pants, and very modest blouses. While some people seem to think that this is some sort of women's oppression, the impression I got while in Jordan was that these customs were in place out of respect for, and protection for, women. Agree with that logic or not, I'd say that if you follow these customs as a woman, you're definitely really safe. We got very few cat-calls, if any. Jordanian culture is really based on respect, and a large part of that is respect for women.

There were definitely protests in Jordan. But, protests occur in certain places, at certain times, and those things are planned ahead of time. The locations and times are well known, emailed to Americans by the embassy, and therefore easy to avoid. The vast majority of our group went for the entire duration of the trip without so much as seeing a trace of a protest, despite the fact that violent protests occurred while we were there. You would have to make an effort to be at a protest. You can't end up there by accident.

As far as the influences of international politics on safety, the absolutely only challenge would be if you are Jewish. To make it clear - you'll be fine. Five of the fifteen people on my trip were Jewish. You just have to be aware of the tensions between Israel and Palestine, understand that the vast majority of Jordan is Palestinian, understand that Jewish and Israeli are synonymous in Jordan, even when it's not accurate, and understand that it's a conflict that has had a very direct impact on many Jordanians. Jewish students on exchange CAN AND WILL be perfectly safe in Jordan; they just have to be aware of the prejudices in the region, and know how to handle it, which is something that NSLI-Y makes sure to cover with Jewish students both before departure, and at orientation.

Morocco - Hassan H.

As a male it was fine, but for females cat-calling was definitely a problem. In our case, we took it upon us (the boys) to look after the girls and make sure they got home safe / weren't harassed. Other concerns were pickpocket and thieves on the buses; we never used them for that reason. Plus, they're not really convenient. The only other safety concern we had was the traffic and driving. Crossing the street is quite chaotic, but after our first few days we got acclimated. It's just a matter of being safe and attentive as a pedestrian. Other than that, we never felt threatened or in danger as long as we followed common sense and what we were told during orientation. If course there's a shady character here or there, but by paying them no attention we never were harassed by it.

I never had to worry about walking around - in most big cities in the USA, it's better to walk with someone. In Morocco, the same rule applies, but it was never uncomfortable or dangerous to walk alone, day or night. Safety is also more visible there - police are everywhere and shop owners do seem to look out for tourists if possible. The people in general are very nice and willing to help which is a big plus [compared to] some parts of the USA. Also, I would say that there was always a sense of safety- we never felt threatened or in danger, and the environment, people, and culture all contribute to a safe and comfortable environment.

I don't remember any protests or political demonstrations during our time. Generally, Moroccans love their king and are satisfied with government, so they don't feel the need to protest. Before we got there, there were some, but the king was open and allowed them to occur with a police presence for safety and monitoring. He's also made some democratic reforms, so that's helped with keeping people satisfied. Political activity and protests never affected us, but they were quite interested in learning about America and our opinion on big name politicians - particularly Obama. The other things in neighboring nations didn't really set anything off either. People in Moroccan are just generally happy- their parliament and king work pretty well together and they have the freedoms they want from their government. All in all, political tension is probably one of the smallest worries I had. However, we were told that if any organization/protest did start, to stay away and leave just for our safety.

Oman -Ariel V.

The only safety - which wasn't really safety; it was more of a respect thing - concern we had was to remember not to eat or drink in public, since we were there during Ramadan. There was nothing regarding safety that we had to be concerned about [more than in the United States].

There were no protests in Oman while we were there, and the during the only day in which we were warned that there would be protests (it had to do with Israel) there were none. In Yemen, there was and still is political tension, however there was no spillover that we had to be worried about, and it didnt affect our daily life in Oman.
There was nothing in terms of safety [for girls] that was different, I just had to remember that I couldn't wear short-anything because of the environment I was in.

Russia - Kira W.

The differences I noticed are would probably be the same going to any urban place: keeping track of my stuff, more cautious crossing the street, etc. Russian drivers don't stop for pedestrians and if you're with other Russians, they probably won't wait for a crosswalk. NSLI-Y has a dress code (nothing extremely short or revealing, that sort of stuff) that is much more conservative than what Russian teens where. No safety differences between girls and guys, as far as I could tell... Guys' families were maybe a bit less protective?

One time some drunk man came up to us during lunch and started shouting at us. Program people and the restaurant dealt with it for us though. By the reactions of the Russians in the restaurant, it seemed like that was really unusual though. Other than that, people sometimes tried to talk to us calmly and we just had to know to get up and go someplace else.

Honestly, I felt extremely safe over there. NSLI-Y has a fantastic support system in place if something goes wrong, but I never really felt in danger.

South Korea - Marisa Jo R.

Honestly, I felt much safer in Korea than I did at home. A stroll in the neighborhood at 11pm was no different than a stroll in the neighborhood at 2pm. I actually acted more "recklessly" (i.e. late night walks) because I felt safer. Drivers were way wilder, so I only had to be careful in crossing the street. [There were] usual concerns about pick-pocketing in tourist areas and on the subway. I was aware of one or two parts of town not to be in after dark, as well as suspicious karaoke places in those areas.

I actually avoided going to any Korean protests, because they can get a bit wild but only one peaceful protest happened during my stay that I was aware of, and it didn't affect me. North Korea is very close to Seoul, but Koreans worry far less about relations with them than we do. My safety was never influenced by politics or international relations.

I didn't have any additional safety concerns because of my gender that I wouldn't already have in America. Again, I generally felt safer in Korea, partly because foreigners are treated so well, but also because it was just SAFE. Koreans generally embrace much more traditional gender roles though, so just be prepared to surprise some people if you want to be a doctor or a lawyer.....but they did just elect a female president

On a related side note, Koreans believe that there are simply no gay Koreans. I got asked regularly if I "actually knew gay people" but I didn't notice a difference in safety levels or attitudes than say, the American south. It's mostly just a curiosity thing for them.

Taiwan - Carly B.

Taiwan is generally safer than America as far as traveling alone and as a girl. Tip: To avoid getting into a collision, be very aware when walking on roads and crossing the street, motorbikes come from all directions. In Taiwan I feel a whole not safer while walking alone at night, whereas in many places in America it just isn't as safe. Taiwan has lower violent crime rates which leads to a more comfortable feeling. Also, in Alaska [Carly's home] walking around at night you need to be aware of moose and bear - I'm still waiting to catch a glimpse of the Formosan bear.

We all know about the tension caused by the one China policy, and that there is an ongoing chance of war. Like most Taiwanese, I think the happenstance that I'm in the country when this happens, or if it will ever happen is very minimal.

As a girl traveling in Taiwan when alone you may be prone to questions like, ' Do you have a boyfriend' by men who ride beside you in the public transportation, or even the bus drivers. To not lead on anyone or be in an unsafe situation I just make sure I stay around as many people as possible so I am never far from help.

Tajikistan - Katie A.

 The three major concerns I can think of are:
  1. Health: We were told never to drink the water or eat off of the streets, but we could brush our teeth with it and there was a western-style medical clinic, plus they airlift you or something if it gets really bad.
  2. Limits on freedom: It sounds bad, but basically means don't say bad things about the president, have your passport, don't photograph government buildings, and you're fine. I read SO MUCH about it but it's not really enforced.
  3. Stay in a group: We got a few sketchy people trying to marry us and whatnot, but I think this is more a general exchange thing... if you aren't fluent in the language/culture, it would just be dumb to walk around alone.
  4. Driving (bonus!): It's crazy, but I wouldn't put it past other teenagers [in America] to drive like [they do in Tajikistan].
Parents don't have to worry about their kids drinking/driving/doing drugs here and I never experienced violence; it's a lot less prevalent than in Chicago, where I would have been a lot

Tajiks are notoriously complacent, it's post-soviet. The country borders Afghanistan, and so people see the extremism and do what they can to avoid it... large-scale political dissension is laughable in Dushanbe.

Women are a lot more equal than most people think. We had to dress modestly because otherwise you attract attention, and one time a man on the bus was harassing us, so we just had another guy stand by us.

Turkey - Delia R.

While in Turkey, I took care when choosing clothes every morning - I wasn't sure how my host family would react or how people on the street would react. Especially considering the heat, it was quite frustrating to pick out clothes that were modest but cool. That was the main [concern].
Not making eye contact was something I had been warned to do, so I didn't look at guys at all. It was mainly on public transportation that this was an issue at all - I did have one unpleasant experience, but overall I felt fairly safe.
Syria hadn't gotten super intense at that point, and in any case I was on the opposite side of Turkey. I was treated to several rants by my host mother, but other than that, I was completely unaffected by instability in surrounding places.

As a girl, I sometimes felt a little uncomfortable - there was a lot more catcalling and obvious flirtations than in America. But I never really felt unsafe - I moved freely through the city by myself and I didn't ever feel in danger.

Sunday, December 30, 2012

2nd Annual NSLI-Y New Year's Eve

NSLI-Y is probably going to shoot me for saying this, but in the long-run, for most of the students, NSLI-Y isn't about learning the language. I'm ashamed to admit it, but I know that my Arabic skills have plummeted from where they were when I ended the program. I won't make excuses about it - but my Arabic right now is simply not fantastic.

There are two other big things that you gain from exchange programs - the cultural immersion and understanding, and the friendships. Oftentimes, I think that the friendships get overlooked. My NSLI-Y group consisted of fifteen high schoolers from across the United States - who happen to be some of the most amazing people that I know, and some of my closest friends.

It's strange now, because NSLI-Y was years ago for me. And while my language skills have faded, the friendships have not. Between Skype, Facebook, and intermittent reunions when we figure out a weekend and scrape together the money for bus tickets, we've kept in amazingly good touch for a group scattered from sea to shining sea.

A few days before we left Jordan, I remember sitting around in our apartment building, kind of daydreaming about how we'd spend New Year's Eve together once we were back in America. At the time, I didn't really think it would happen, but sure enough, I spent my last moments of 2011 and first moments of 2012 with my "Jordan habibtis."

Wonderfully enough, it's happening again this year! It's the last day of 2012, and I'll be spending the last hours, minutes, and seconds of the year with the same habibtis I started it with. It's changed from a "surprised-that-this-is-actually-happening" excited to a "warm-fuzzy-I-love-that-this-family-reunites-every-year-and-I-just-want-to-hug-everyone" excited, but a wonderful excited nonetheless.

Yo, habibtis, I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU ALL! Those of you who can't be there, especially Sera, who is a hoss and on the year-long NSLI-Y trip to Morocco, I miss you. We'll be thinking of you guys as we ring in 2013 here in Chicago!

Saturday, December 22, 2012

NSLI-Y Alumni Lunch... as a high school graduate!

After (finally) graduating from high school yesterday, I had organized a NSLI-Y alumni lunch downtown today, and so spent the day in Chicago. It was myself, two girls who spent this past school year in Russia, one girl who spent the past year in Taiwan, and a girl who just found out she was a semi-finalist for China year. So applicant and alumni lunch, I suppose. Everyone was really wonderful though - it's nice to do this every so often, and just spend a few hours with NSLI-Y people, talking about NSLI-Y things.

It was the weirdest thing though, to introduce myself.

"I'm Diana, I was in Amman for the summer of 2011."
"Do you go to Northwestern?" (I was wearing a Wildcats sweatshirt).
"No, I just graduated from high school." (WHAAAAA?)
"Oh, where do you go to school?"
"Well, when I said just graduated, I meant yesterday, so I'm moving to Swaziland in three weeks."
"Oh, what are you doing there?" (I love how exchange students aren't in shock of anything about those kinds of plans, because everyone has those kinds of plans. It's a welcome break from the dropped jaws I get elsewhere.)
"Just going to study for a couple years to get my IB diploma." (Also love how exchange students don't need me to explain how IB works, and how it's typical in some countries to do high school, college, then university).
"Oh. Cool."

HOW IS THIS REAL LIFE?


NSLI-Y Alumni in Chicago (Taiwan, Russia, Russia, and myself on the right, repping Jordan)
 
 

Friday, October 5, 2012

Parents Concerned About Exchange

I've been getting a lot of messages lately from NSLI-Y applicants for this year's cycle asking about how they can convince their parents to simply let them apply, much less go. I can't speak for all the programs, but here's my attempt to address most of the concerns I've heard.

  1. "Will you be safe there?": On the American Councils program in Jordan, each student was given a Jordanian cell phone, which was used to keep in contact with host families, other students, and the resident directors. They gave us literally every emergency number possible on a cute little laminated card to keep in our wallets - everything from the embassy to our apartment manager to the student services director at our school. Students are allowed to go around the city, but only in groups of three or more, or with at least one member of a host family or local friend. I felt safer walking around Amman at night than I do walking around American cities at night. There wasn't a single moment in Amman when I didn't feel completely safe.
  2. "The Middle East is dangerous, right?": Yes, there are protests. When I was in Jordan, it was the height of the "Arab Spring," and there were plenty of protests. The thing about protests is that they're planned, which means you can avoid them. the State Department registers all NSLI-Y students, knows they're in the country, and sends daily email updates on whether there are any planned protests, and therefore areas to avoid. While there are protests, and probably more than in the States, it's SO EASY to go weeks without ever seeing a protest. Also, remember, NSLI-Y is a State Department run program - they're in with the embassy. You can count on the fact that the security and safety of NSLI-Y kids is a priority. If a program starts to be unsafe because of protests and the like - THEY CANCEL IT, and the kids go home early. There's no chance of your kid being in a country where it's not safe.
  3. "Why don't you just study the language at home?": You just can't. You learn so much of the language by speaking it with everyone you meet, and speaking it all day, every day. You can't possibly do that at home. On exchange, you can't survive without learning. I don't know how to make this any clearer - exchange is THE BEST way to learn a language. Even with no prior language experience, studying on a NSLI-Y trip will have you conversant in the new language by the end of the program.
  4. "Sending a teenager to live on their own for a whole summer? No way.": To be honest, your kid is so much safer overseas than in America. In Jordan, alcohol wasn't even an option - in the culture, it just doesn't exist. I can't speak for the other programs, but in Jordan, we did ridiculous things, we had a wonderful time, but looking back on it, it was incredibly wholesome. Seriously - your kid will be fine. If you as a parent are simply not ready to send your kid away for a couple months (or a year, if that's what you're considering), take a step back, and please, please think about what this means to your kid, and what an amazing opportunity this is. And applicants, if you really want to go for a year, but haven't gone away ever before, consider applying for a summer for now, and a year later, maybe as a gap year. I promise, it's still an amazing experience, and it's smart to try it for a summer before committing to a year abroad. Plus, it makes it easier on your parents.
  5. "Is NSLI-Y actually entirely free?": YES - IT'S FREE! Free to apply, and everything paid on the program. You just need to pay for a passport if you don't already have one, and then spending money during the program. But they do give you a stipend, and what they gave us in Jordan was plenty to pay for food and souvenirs, so if you're worried about spending money, don't be. And yes, the international airfare is included as FREE!
If anybody has any other questions from parents, feel free to ask me in the comments- if you have country specific questions about programs other than Arabic, please join our Facebook group. We have alumni from almost every program and duration to answer questions, and plenty of applicants asking questions - http://www.facebook.com/groups/215777371826134/. (Yes, I know the year is wrong, it was created last year, and Facebook doesn't allow groups to change their names. It's been very active so far this year as well).

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

NSLI-Y Applications 2013-2014

(This is for everyone out there who is waiting for the NSLI-Y app for this year, and getting ready to apply for their grand adventure. I figured you guys are already scouring the internet for NSLI-Y posts, anxiously awaiting the release of the application).

Dear New Applicants,
Welcome to the family! And that's really what NSLI-Y is - regardless of what year, program, duration, or language you went on, or want to go on, it's a big family, united by this one goal of wanting to study a weird language.

I'm assuming you guys are all anxious about applying for NSLI-Y, and all that you've heard about it being competitive and all, but don't let that scare you. It's an amazing program - just remember that, instead of the statistics. If you're truly excited about the learning opportunity that NSLI-Y is, and let that come through on the application, you have a good chance of actually getting that opportunity.

First of all, we have a Facebook group for applicants - ignore the name it's for people from any year, not just 2012-2013. It's not even all applicants anymore, as we made it last year, so a lot of the members are now alumni. But there are still a lot of new applicants, and alumni applying for a second (or third) time around. It's a pretty great resource to find out about the specific programs from alumni, and get help with the application from people who have been through it successfully. I know that there's always NSLI-Y on ExchangesConnect, and Cultures-Shocked.org, which has a NSLI-Y thread, but I honestly think that our  Facebook group has more active members, and more alumni from the different programs than anywhere else. Have a question? Someone will probably answer it within ten minutes. Plus, we're fun people to talk to about your excitement for NSLI-Y when people at school and home are sick of hearing about it! :)

Second of all, good luck. I'm not applying for NSLI-Y this year, but I wish I could again. Going to Jordan for the summer was literally life-changing, and I really wish that everyone could have such an amazing experience as that. My one piece of advice? Be confident in yourself, and if you do get the chance to go, never say no to anything - you don't want to miss out on something amazing just because you were tired, or didn't feel like it. Say yes to things, smile, keep an open mind and an open heart, and I promise, you'll fall in love with wherever you get the chance to go.

Good luck! Join the Facebook group, and get ready for when the application comes out!
-Diana

PS. Even if you don't wind up getting accepted, you're still part of the family. It's a family of being interested in foreign languages and cultures, and we don't have rejection letters. That's a state department thing, and if we could get rid of those, believe me, in this family? We would :)

Monday, August 20, 2012

Swaziland, NSLI-Y Rosetta Stone, and Free Exchange Programs

This turned out to be a really long post, so it's split into three parts. Read what you would like.

GETTING READY TO GO TO SWAZILAND
I got home from ten weeks away from home yesterday afternoon. Within two hours, I was already bored, and so I decided to open up the joining papers for WK (Waterford Kamhlaba).

First of all, the above image is from the immigration papers for the long-term visa. Just thought I'd include that - it's a first reminder for me that the country where I'll be moving is going to be quite a bit different, especially after my last ten weeks working with truly amazing special needs campers, none of whom I would consider deficient in any way. It's a more-than-subtle reminder that the culture shock reaches beyond food and dress. Acceptance and lack thereof, of many different things, seems to always be the hardest culture difference for me to swallow. This wasn't really surprising for me to see, but still raised my eyebrows for a moment.

Secondly, I realized how excited I am to go to Swaziland. I absolutely loved every moment of this summer, and miss my campers dearly, but now that I'm home, I'm already looking to the next thing. I didn't think about where I'm headed in January much while at camp, but now that the 24/7 work schedule is over with, I have time to be excited! I have to admit, I starting packing last night - there is a pile of things in the corner of my room that have been designated as "bring with." Mostly things I want to decorate my room with, but it still made me laugh when I realized I was packing already.

Anyways, I start back at my high school here on Wednesday - I'll keep attending classes there until the last day before winter break, which isn't the last day of the semester, but will be my last day. The weird thing for me is that I've taken all the French classes my high school has to offer, through AP French V, so I don't have a foreign language class this semester. (I'll be taking English, French and siSwati as language classes at the UWC, I think).

FINDING THE FREE ROSETTA STONE ON THE STATE ALUMNI WEBSITE
I'm going to work really hard this semester to keep up with Arabic and French this semester using the free Rosetta Stone I get as an alumni of NSLI-Y - I've been getting a lot of questions from other alumni about how to get that software, so here's the step-by-step. They definitely didn't make it easy to find! (This is for alumni only, and isn't available to everyone - sorry about that! If you are eligible to apply, I definitely recommend applying for a state department program - see the next section in this post!)

  1. Create an account on alumni.state.gov - make sure you register as a NSLI-Y alumni.
  2. Once registered, on the homepage of the website, under where it says "new mail" on the right hand side, under communities, click "NSLI-Y"
  3. In the center column of the next page, under language Library, hit "Login to JLU."
  4. On the next page, the third tab down on the right hand side has a green binder on it, reading "Resources." Click that.
  5. Rosetta Stone will be on that list - you register to be placed on a waiting list, and in maybe a month or two you'll get an email that it's become available for you.
FREE EXCHANGE PROGRAMS!
I get lots of questions on how I'm paying to go to places like Jordan and Swaziland - I'm not. I went to Jordan with NSLI-Y, which is a full scholarship. I'm also attending UWC on a full scholarship, excluding flights, which I'll be paying for out of my wages working at camp. Both of these, and several other programs, are full scholarships based on merit - they don't take finances into consideration. Here are a few of the free exchange programs you can apply to when you're high school aged.

(These programs are open to US citizens - if you're not a US citizen, check out exchanges.state.gov if you want programs to come to the US).

APPLICATIONS FOR THESE ARE GOING TO OPEN AND CLOSE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT, SO DON'T MISS DEADLINES!
  1. NSLI-Y (http://www.nsliforyouth.org): Offers summer and year programs (including gap years) in Taiwan, China, South Korea, Turkey, Russia, Tajikistan, Jordan, Oman, Morocco, India, and others. Very focused on language learning.  (Eligibility: 15-18 years old at start of program, minimum 2.5 HS GPA)
  2. YES (http://www.yesprograms.org/yesabroad): Offers mostly-year long (one semester program) to live in a Muslim society. Countries include B&H, Egypt, Ghana, India, Indonesia, Mali (semester), Malaysia, Morocco, Oman, Thailand, Turkey. Very focused on culture, little language training. (Eligibility: Different by country, check website. Mostly 15-18 years old).
  3. CBYX (http://www.usagermanyscholarship.org): Offers year-long scholarships to study in Germany. Must be 15-18 years old, 3.0 GPA.
  4. UWC (http://www.uwc-usa.org/podium/default.aspx?t=119140): Two years at one of their campuses. Out of about 600 applicants, 25 are accepted to the US campus, and 25 are accepted to be split up among the other campuses around the world, such as B&H, Italy, Norway, Wales, India,  Singapore, Hong Kong, Swaziland, and Costa Rica. It's a full scholarship for room, board, and tuition for the two school years, but airfare is on you. All schools follow the northern hemisphere school schedule, except for Swaziland, which runs January to November each year. Eligibility is a bit more complex, but the link describes it pretty well. Be warned, this will most likely add a year onto high school for you, as they accept people to attend often for their senior and then an extra year, and only rarely junior and senior year.
GOOD LUCK!

Friday, June 1, 2012

Reasons to Write - Part 2

When I started this blog exactly one year ago (almost), my first post was titled "Reasons to Write." And one year ago, I said that I wanted this blog to be a way for me to remember things - the little stories.

Well, I broke 4,000 pageviews yesterday, and realized that the things I had been writing were different. I was no longer writing things for myself to remember - I'd started trying to figure out what people interested in exchange would want to read, and I'd write about that.

To be honest, it didn't work out very well. So, this is a throwback post to some "little stories" of Jordan. Soon enough, I'll have new little stories of Swaziland and other adventures soon, but for now, enjoy.


When we arrived in Jordan, they gave us cell phones. Nothing fancy - they weren't even flip phones, but I was so excited because there was Arabic on the keys, along with English. Now, there are a few stories about this phone. 

First, keep in mind how terrible I am at phones and texting and all that. So, I learned to text in Jordan - on this phone. The funny part is that the very first day, I didn't really know how to work it, so I had our assistant resident director activate the phone, and copy down the number to give to the director. Apparently, he gave her the wrong number, because four weeks later, I realized that she'd been trying to text me the entire time, and I never got any of them. Oh my..

Second after we had been in school for maybe three or four weeks, my Arabic ego had starting swelling, and I thought it'd be a good idea to set my phone to be all in Arabic - for practice, you know? I had no problems setting the phone to be in Arabic, and so I stuck it back in my pocket thinking I was hot stuff. About an hour later, I got a text, grabbed the phone, and realized I had no idea how to work it when it was set in Arabic. I had to go find my host sister and hold the phone out to her, saying "Inglizi, losamati," English, please. It took her a second to figure out what I had done, and then she just laughed at me. Silly American...

Okay, one last story about the phone. Amman is a very mountainous city, so a lot of the time it's like the houses are on top of each other. Okay, so the houses are on top of each other. Anyways, my host aunt and uncle and their four daughters lived right above and next door to us, depending on how you described it, and there was another exchange student living with them. One morning, I get a text as I'm getting dressed and getting my books into my bag. It's a really, really, frantic text from the other student, saying that she needs my help RIGHT AWAY or something. So, I head over to their house, open the door, and  see my friend with a horrified look on her face. I ask what's wrong, and she says that there's a cockroach in the shower. That's what she texted me about at six in the morning, before anyone else in the neighborhood was awake? Yes.



Here's the second thing - the sulhafa, simply meaning "turtle." The sulhafa was my host cousin's pet, all the way from Saudi Arabia, where they found it outside their house. My cousin was a really smart, creative kid, and he had built all sorts of things for the sulhafa - a car made of popsicle sticks, a whole farm scene where it could sit, and a house. And so, sulhafa became one of the first words I learned beyond simple conversations. 

One day, in class, we did an activity where we were in groups of two or three, and we all had to write a line of a story. Then we'd pass the story to the next group, and write the next line, and keep passing until the story was finished.The catch? It all had to be in Arabic. To make a long story short, our group added a turtle army, a "jaesh sulhafa," to each and every story, much to our amusement, and the aggravation of the other groups. Our teacher just laughed at our spelling of sulhafa, because we'd only ever heard it around the house, and essentially made up the spelling.


Finally, there are the doorknobs. Now, I hate to say that the apartments we moved into were in disrepair, but they were. The shower heads were hanging off the walls, the couches had nails sticking out of them, and would often collapse when someone sat down on them, and finally, the doorknobs kept falling out. We had four doors in our apartment, and it was so normal that the handles would fall off that if it happened, we'd just toss them by the door to reattach later. On this particular day, three of the four handles had fallen off. We didn't think it was annoying though - it was hilarious.

Anyways, those are some stories that I hope in 50 years I'll be able to get a laugh out of, or that someone else can appreciate. Thank you all for reading this blog, it's amazing that people have read it 4,000 times! I'm excited to see what borders I can cross next!

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Exchange Programs and Real Life

One of the biggest things I read about is how exchange programs get people ready for other opportunities, whether they're abroad or at home. This summer, I'll be living in Iowa working at a special needs camp (exact location classified: aren't you proud, Cat?). I've worked as a counselor before, and decided I'd love to spend another summer as a counselor. I get paid in smiles and sunshine, and I'll be making enough money to pay for my ticket to Swaziland - what more could I wish for?

Anyways, here's a "top five" list of sorts, of how having studied in Jordan (or anywhere abroad) will make camp easier. I guess it's kind of a "things-you-gain-from-exchange-that-can-help-you-elsewhere" list.

  1. Living with other people: While in Jordan, I lived with a host family and in an apartment building. After that, I have no qualms about living in a cabin with a bunch of other people. Can't leave my stuff in the bathroom? No problem. Very little privacy? No problem.
  2. Very little sleep, can't be tired during the day: In Jordan, we'd stay up late with the host families, as it was their summer, but then we had to wake up early to catch the bus for Arabic classes in the morning, and we couldn't allow ourselves to be tired during school. Running on very little sleep definitely won't be an issue at camp.
  3. Being away from home: I didn't really have any problems with homesickness in Jordan, so it's not that, it's just that after living in the Middle East for seven weeks, going to Iowa for ten weeks just doesn't seem like a big deal at all.
  4. New people: While studying abroad, everyone you meet is someone that you have virtually no connections to. They don't know you, or your friends, or your family. It's a strange/amazing situation that you end up, able to interact with new people like that. Camp? Same thing.
  5. Attitude: While on exchange, you've got to have an open mind and a smile on your face, whatever goes wrong. A good rule of thumb is that nothing's a real problem unless you decide it's a problem. Otherwise, it just remains an amusing challenge. The same mentality applies at camp. Both situations require an attitude made of open-mindedness, optimism, determination, and just going-with-the-flow.
There are plenty of other things gained from exchange that are not so easily put into words, but these are a few examples. I've gotten several messages from people going to Jordan with NSLI-Y American Councils, and it makes me so excited to see more people leaving for something that is so important to me. It's strange, while I know that my experiences in Jordan were unique, there's something nice about knowing that you're part of a community of people who have been in similar situations. I guess that's not just NSLI-Y Jordan though, that's a feeling that everyone who has ever studied abroad shares.

Well, now I'm just packing for my summer in the foreign, exotic land of Iowa. I'm pleasantly surprised though, that I'm just as excited for ten weeks working at camp as I was for seven weeks in Jordan. NSLI-Y made my summer really amazing, and now I'm looking forward to the chance to help make someone else's summer amazing.

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Call to Prayer

I uploaded this to Youtube for a French presentation I'm giving in class tomorrow, but figured I'd post it here as well. There just really aren't very many good recordings of the call to prayer in Amman posted, and I think it's too lovely not to hear. This is only a really short clip of it, less than thirty seconds, but it's so beautiful.

And so, I present to you, the call to prayer, as heard from the speakers of Husseini Mosque, fi al-balaad, in Amman, Jordan.

Official Rejection and Facebook Pictures

I'm proud to say that I received my official rejection email from NSLI-Y; after several weeks of being an "alternate," it's all over. Sob, sob, sob.

Oh wait, you mean I already have other summer plans figured out, and I'm leaving for Swaziland soon afterwards? Right, right.

But in all actuality, I'm really just happy now for the people who get to go this year, so here's to hoping they learn as much about the Middle East and themselves as I did last year.

The funny thing was, I see that, and then I get on Facebook, and the first thing on my newsfeed is a picture of the program director for NSLI-Y Jordan, in Jordan, hanging out with my host family on their planning trip. AHHH I MISS THEM SO MUCH! It was a whole bundle full of "Wait, our director is in Jordan? Oh right, planning trip. Hey, I know that couch... I KNOW THOSE PEOPLE! THEY'RE MY FAVORITES!!!"

Anyways, just a week and a half left of school, and I leave to cross the treacherous Iowa border on June 9th!

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Packing Tips for NSLI-Y (and other study abroad)

So, there has been a little (lot) bit of freaking out about packing, and how much to pack, and what to pack. This is a run-down, in a handy dandy Q&A form, for everyone who is freaking out about packing. I mean, come on guys. You're capable young adults, going abroad for the summer/year. You can handle filling a suitcase.

(Note: NSLI-Y official rules of packing (at least my understanding) - summer guys, you get one checked bag. Year, you get two. Fifty pounds (MAX) for each. Plus your carry-on.)

Q: How much should I pack?
A: One (two, for year, if you need it) suitcase(s) that weigh less than fifty pounds, plus a carry on bag. Rule of thumb? You have to be able to carry all your luggage (BY YOURSELF) up a mountain and back to get to and from your house with it. Oh wait... that was reality in Jordan. Still a good rule of thumb!

Q: Is 50 pounds going to be enough?
A: Yes. Although shoot for 30 or 40 if you can, just to leave plenty of space for souvenirs and such. If you're a book person, or are planning on getting a particular heavy object, leave more space, as these items weigh more than you'd expect.

Q: Do we have to wear long pants/skirts if we're going to the Middle East?
A: Yes. You're ambassadors of the United States, like it or not. That's what you get for accepting a US government sponsored scholarship. Therefore, be modest, and learn to love the long pants. I promise, when you get back to the states, you'll be in shock at the haraam clothing of American teenagers ;)

Q: How do you pack for a whole year?
A: The same as you pack for the summer. Laundry exists, you know. You don't have to bring another outfit for every day!

Q: How big should my suitcase be?
A: Rule of thumb? Don't be an idiot. You'll know if your suitcase is too big if you can't carry it out the door by yourself. Just make it big enough to bring what you need, and no bigger. (Although, if you're a big shopping/souvenir person, leave extra room. I had enough room for souvenirs after giving my host family their presents, but that might not be the case for you).

Q: How many outfits should I bring?
A: Enough for one week - you can do laundry. Or follow the "rule of fives." Five tops, five bottoms, five pairs of socks, five pairs of underwear, and so on.

Q: How do I make all these clothes fit?
A: Don't fold pants, just put them flat at the bottom of the suitcase. Roll t-shirts like this. Put anything that's not cooperating in a Ziploc bag, and zipper it when you're sitting on it to squish out all the air. Put your socks and underwear inside gym shoes so that you don't waste the space.

Q: What do I put in my carry-on?
A: Heavy things, because your carry-on isn't weighed, but your checked bag is. This includes books, and any sort of large metal jewelry, if you have a lot of that.

Q: What should I do for luggage locks?
A: You really don't need to lock anything, but if you want to you can buy a luggage lock at Target or Walmart. Just make sure it says that it's TSA approved on the package.

Q: What about bringing back souvenirs?
A: If you know you're a big shopper, leave room. If you're not, the space that "opens up" after giving your host family their presents should be enough, depending on what the presents are.

Q: What will I bring back to the States when I'm done?
A: Souvenirs, of course. But most likely you'll end up leaving a lot of your clothes that you brought with to the host country, in the host country. In some cases it's to make more room for a souvenir that you now like more than that old t-shirt, or because you're just barely over the weight limit. Our group created a significant pile of clothing items that stayed in Jordan after we left, so don't be surprised if ou find yourself leaving lots of clothes behind. As such, pack accordingly, and try not to be emotionally attached to every piece of clothing you pack :D

Q: AHHHH WHAT ABOUT _________ ?!?!?!?
A: Do you need it? Yes? Bring it. No? Don't. Easy as that.

HAVE FUN PACKING EVERYONE! Even though I'm not going with NSLI-Y this summer, packing just makes me excited. Plus, I still have to pack for eleven weeks of camp this summer, and packing to go to Swaziland is right around the corner!

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Life

Here's a short list of things on my mind. Sometimes lists are easier :)

  1. I really want to just gush happiness over all the people going to Jordan this summer, and tell them everything about why I love it there, but I promised myself that I wouldn't tell them ANYTHING so that I don't ruin it for them. But I really want to make sure that they appreciate the fantastic-ness of Radio ROTANA. But I don't want to tell them, because I want them to discover its awesomen factor all on their own. 
  2. I'm getting more and more nervous about the UWCs as the week of fate draws nearer. Not much to say about this, other than I just really, really want to get in. I watched the entire One World show from the UWC in Canada after it got posted on their Facebook, and it just made me that much more excited :)
  3. I wish nobody would be rejected from NSLI-Y their first time through. I understand that us alumni are to be turned down sometimes, but I wish everyone could have the experience at least once! It just makes me sad to see people who aren't getting accepted.
I have more on my mind than this, as that would be rather pathetic to only think about three things, but this is all that's really relevant to this blog. 

Also, I just want to say that EVERYONE WHO APPLIED FOR NSLI-Y IS AWESOME AND I LOVE YOU ALL AND I DON'T CARE WHO MADE IT IN AND NOT YOU'RE ALL STILL FANTASTIC AND I WISH EVERYONE COULD GO! I'm sick of seeing everyone who hasn't heard back yet being so sad. 

(NSLI-Y acceptances aren't done yet, but they're drawing to a close. They said that they'll be done by April 20th, and all the alternates, aka me, will know for sure by May 15th).

Saturday, March 31, 2012

NSLI-Y Morocco 2012

I've been accepted to NSLI-Y to Morocco with Legacy International... as an alternate.

It's kind of like a waitlist, being an alternate. I get to go if someone else drops out. Actually, all four of us that applied after going to Jordan are all alternates for it.

It stinks for three reasons. First, somebody has to drop out for me to go. Which leaves me in the awkward position of hoping somebody can't go - which I hate, because I want everyone in the entire world to be able to do NSLI-Y and see how amazing it is. Secondly, with four of us as alternates for the exact same program, we're competing against each other. Which I suppose we have been doing the entire time, but it's worse now. Finally, there's a chance I might not find out for another month and a half, which is simply hard to wait for.

But it's good, I suppose. I haven't been rejected, and there's still a chance I might go. A lot of alternates get accepted, it's not like it's an entirely lost cause. And I'm definitely thankful for the opportunity to go again, but it's still frustrating. I appreciate everything that NSLI-Y has already given me though.

Well, I guess I'll be spending all day today trying to seek out summer programs that aren't really expensive, whether it ends up being STARTALK or working at a Girl Scout Camp, or whatever else comes up. And I'm definitely still hoping (and dying so badly to hear from) the UWCs. I get nervous just thinking about it!

It's strange now, looking back from the first post on this blog, about having been given the chance to study abroad for the summer, and now being in the other position - waiting for someone else to have to drop out so that I can go. It's strange to hear everyone who has been accepted say where they're going, and with what program, for what language. I love it, don't get me wrong, but it's strange. Because they're such amazing people, and I don't want any of them to have to miss out on this chance. But I definitely want to be able to go again as well. I'm not sure what to think about all of this. I'm not devastated or anything, as there's still a chance, and I already had my free study abroad for one summer, but I'm definitely not really happy either. I'm not quite sure what to think.

Regardless, NSLI-Y definitely started something for me as far as international studies goes, and even if this one summer doesn't work out like I had wished, it's definitely not the end. I'm still reaching for the UWCs, and hopefully later a whole other list of magical things... NYU Abu Dhabi, Peace Corps, Doctors Without Borders, CLS, and so on and so forth. And while NSLI-Y is still up in the air, that list makes me smile anyways :)

Thursday, March 15, 2012

NSLI-Y Notifications... already??!

Don't worry, nothing for Arabic went out today. I'm still just waiting (and freaking out in my head :D).

Bur Russia and India summer acceptances went out today, so it's the start of the hot streak. The Facebook group exploded, ExchangesConnect exploded, and all of us who are still waiting to hear? Our brains are ready to explode as well.

Anyways, this doesn't mean anything whatsoever for anybody who didn't apply for Russian or Hindi, but to all those who were accepted, congratulations! If you're a Russian/Hindi kid who hasn't heard back, don't fret! It's rolling basis, you could still hear - also, alternates have a very high chance of being able to go as well.

Nonetheless, I'm still more stressed out than a turkey around Thanksgiving. But it's a really, really, good stressed out.

Oh, and I bought a shirt for my UWC interview on Saturday. I literally didn't own a single dress shirt that would be appropriate for this sort of weather - most of my interviews are in the winter, and I have one dress sweater that I wore to ALL OF THEM! As I hate shopping it wasn't the most pleasant afternoon. But it's totally worth it! I can't wait for that interview either - so much going on!

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE/CONGRATULATIONS
This post makes no sense. I can't even think straight....

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

"Home is wherever I'm with you."

In waiting for NSLI-Y notifications to come out this year, we've been thinking about last year quite a bit (by we, I mean myself and another one of the girls from Jordan who applied again and is a semifinalist with me).

Exchange programs are strange things. You go learn about the culture, and for NSLI-Y specifically, as it is funded as a language learning program, to study the target language. But I assure you, if you return having only learned verb conjugations and vocabulary words, you've wasted your time.

This is a post about the NSLI-Y group. While we definitely were immersed in the Middle East itself, it's not to say that we didn't become tight-knit as a group. Sometimes I wonder if it's ridiculous to have fallen in love with everyone and everything so quickly this summer. The program director in DC commented when we got back that we were closer as a group than she'd ever seen before. (I can't remember if that was before or after we all ended up with pudding on our noses at dinner...). Maybe it was because there were only 15 of us, and it wasn't a group of 30 or 40. Maybe it was simply because a lot happened, which sounds strange, but I feel like we had more of adventure than might be typical. Being on an exchange like this is kind of like being in a band. It's not that you're isolated, because there are people all around, all the time. There's very little privacy, and yet you and the other band members end up being closer than you could have ever imagined. Maybe it's because we could only speak English to each other, or maybe it's because we were the ones sharing everything with each other. No matter how much I love Arabic, after six weeks of class, there were times I just needed to talk in English about stuff that you can't say in a second language that fast. We all shared everything with each other, good and bad. That's enough to make any group be as close as we were.

After the summer, I come back to the States, and look around at everyone. The strangest thing was in DC, seeing ourselves in the same places we had met each other, seven weeks before. Except this time, we were the furthest thing from strangers. I remember hanging out in the pool our first night together. It was strange, and awkward. I remember studying Arabic altogether in someone's room the next night, not quite sure what to make of each other. But after a summer together, halfway around the world, the awkwardness was more than gone. We didn't sleep our last night - at all. We couldn't bear to sleep through a moment together.

So, now we're waiting to find out about another summer. We can't help but wonder how it will change, as last summer so was much defined by the people in the group. Sure, we'll be studying the same language if we get accepted (insha'allah), but that means almost nothing. The point of an exchange isn't words and grammar - you can learn that in a classroom at home. Exchange is something to learn more than that. I can't tell you what it is here, it's something to be discovered. Whether you do that in the target language, or in English as a result of the target, it becomes one in the same. And you fall in love with all of it, even if you were only there for six weeks.

And so she posted this video on my Facebook. It was kind of a theme song for us this summer, one of the few songs we all knew before getting there that we could sing along to when we needed it. But it's true, "home is wherever I'm with you." It's strange like that.


And so here we are, waiting to find out about next year, anxious to hear about our next adventure. I'm definitely excited to be able to use Arabic on a daily basis again, but I'm also just excited to see what this summer will turn into. iA :)

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Favorite Places

All right, this is more just to occupy my brain than anything. Also, sometimes I just have these moments when I'm scared I'm going to forget something, and I feel the need to write it down somewhere. So here it is, at least for these two moments.
This is the plaza outside of the Husseini Mosque in downtown Amman. It's always hustling and bustling, especially around the end of Friday prayers, when this was taken. There are people hawking fruit, and people shopping, and people leaving the mosque itself. It's one of those places that just standing there makes your head spin from so much excitement and people everywhere. From where I was taking this picture, to my left there is a small bookshop and an alleyway that acts as a fruit market, right next to the mosque. Behind me, about a block away, is the Roman ampitheater, a well known attraction in Amman. And to my right would be all the shops and side roads of downtown. And above would be the minaret of the mosque, lit up with the green lights of every minaret in the city. I love this place so much, it makes me happy just to think about it.

This is my host family's farm outside of Amman, near Al-Salt. First of all, it was the first time in several weeks that I had left Amman, and so I was really happy just to be in a more wide open space, and to be able to see something new. It was actually really spur of the moment. I was awake on a Saturday before my  immediate host family woke up, so I wandered upstairs to see if anyone else was awake, and my two uncles and my cousin were getting ready to go out to the farm for the morning. They knew that we had a farm in the states, and asked if I wanted to come with, as long as I could be ready in ten minutes. Knowing me, I was dressed and ready in five minutes flat, and we headed out to the farm. 

There were plenty of stories from that morning, like when we drove to the neighbors' house to borrow a barrel to use for water, and in true Jordanian style, they invited us in for tea, and we stopped and hung out at this woman's house for half an hour or so. There were a bunch of little kids running around, and they kept staring at me. While I was used to staring by this point in the trip, this was different. I joked about it, asking what they were looking at. They said they'd never met anyone who spoke English before. That really hit me, just because while I understand that English is not as widely spoken as some tour books try to make it sound, and most people don't speak English, almost everyone in Amman has heard it before, or met someone who spoke it. It was kind of humbling in a way to be the first English-speaker the kids had ever met. Maybe humbling isn't the right word, I'm not quite sure. But it was definitely thought-provoking. Knowing you're in a place where your language is not even on the radar is amazing.

Well, that's all for now! I'm just trying to occupy my brain in this dreadful waiting game I'm in :) Now, back to math homework!

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Starting to study Arabic... some resources.

Dear First-Time Arabic Students Applying for NSLI-Y,
(aka those with no prior knowledge of the language that would be spending their time a lot better by starting to learn the alphabet and such instead of just stressing out, but don't even know where to start)
We're all going crazy with anxiety. I totally understand, But, instead of just letting the stress strangle you, start studying Arabic (if that's what you applied for, and if you're a beginner. If you're not a beginner, go hit the textbook you already have!). But seriously, this is fun stuff!

Go through the alphabet, copying the words and pronouncing them. This was the very first exposure to the alphabet that I had, and I made myself an "Arabic Learning Notebook" right away. I made a page for each letter, copying the words and translations on that page for each letter, and then a page as a master sheet for the letters to refer to later on. Make sure to pronounce them yourself after the audio clips!

Sing along to this, and learn the alphabet! It's rather catchy, I still sing it when I'm going through the alphabet in my head. Then and again, I still sing the English alphabet in my head, so maybe that's just me...

Here's some Jordanian ammiya. This is pretty much applicable in Jordan (and maybe surrounding countries a little). So if you're going to Jordan, study up! But if you're going to Morocco, I recommend iTunes. They've got some great Moroccan Arabic podcasts.

Here's a website from the BBC that has simple standard Arabic (MSA) phrases. This is a good starter for before you know if you've been accepted, because they're simple phrases that will be recognized whether you go to Morocco or Jordan. This is also the kind of Arabic that is used in formal situations and the media, so it'll definitely be there.
So, just learn the alphabet, and then start trying to learn simple phrases! And one tip - DON'T TRANSLITERATE IT INTO ENGLISH LETTERS! While it might seem like it's making it easier for yourself, you're just using the Arabic alphabet less. Every time you transliterate, you're cheating yourself of an opportunity to get better at the Arabic alphabet! SO JUST USE THE ARABIC ALPHABET! It's more fun anyways :)
All right then! I guess we're all in the waiting boat again. I can't wait for April to find out whether I get to go again! GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!
Salaam, 7ob, al-3rabia
(oops, I guess I just broke my transliteration rule...)
سلام، حب، العربية
Peace, Love, Arabic
Diana
PS. If you have any questions about learning Arabic, just comment and I'll try to help, and if I don't know I'll message my Arabic teacher and get her to help!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Facebook is like a diary I forget that I'm keeping.

I’m not quite sure what prompted me to do this. Actually, I know exactly what prompted me to. The first post in this long list of posts popped up on the side of my Facebook, and while usually I ignore those posts, it kind of struck me. I mean, I posted it before I went to Jordan, before I met anyone there, before I knew anything about the Middle East, before it all happened. And that’s a little weird. So I ended up going through my statuses since then, and making a grand list. It’s strange, seeing life laid out like this, but kind of fascinating at the same time.

And so I present to you, a list of my exchange program related status updates on Facebook from December 21, 2010, to February 23, 2012. It’s a long read, but hey. If you’re up for it :)

December 21, 2010
“semi-finalist for this exchange program scholarship! so excited!”

March 31, 2011
“Will know in the next two weeks whether I'm spending the summer abroad. I don't think I'm going to be able to focus on much of anything else :)”

April 12, 2011
“WILL BE LIVING IN AMMAN, JORDAN THIS SUMMER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!”

April 16, 2011
“Countdown to Jordan - 58 Days. Countdown to AP Test - 30 Days. I should put down the Arabic book and pick up the review books.”

May 31, 2011
“Packing for the Middle East is easy to do in advance: none of the shorts and t-shirts I wear here are getting packed, and I'm not planning on wearing any of the long sleeves and long pants here before I leave. Sounds like a plan :)”

June 12, 2011
“In about 12 hours, I'll finally been leaving. It's been 64 days since I got my acceptance letter, I'm so ready for this.”

June 15, 2011
“Leaving for the DC airport in a couple minutes, had some extra time for Facebook. Apparently houses in Jordan don't have street numbers, so mail doesn't work. So, I can send letters home, but not recieve them. BYE! I'LL BE ON A A A PLANE FOR LITERALLY THE NEXT THREE DAYS, WITH THE WAY THE TIME CHANGES WORK. It's insane, actually. But it's fun, I'm loving it so far.”

June 18, 2011
“At the Qasid Institute in Amman, Jordan. My host family is amazing, but they don't speak English at all - I'm learning so much Arabic”

June 30, 2011
“Ana 3ndi wajb kiteer. Ana mish baheb wajb. Laken ana 3ndi al urdun, so life is good :)”

July 1, 2011
“Dear deep dish pizza we're making tomorrow,
Please work despite the fact that we couldn't buy cornmeal in the middle east. There's 25 jordanians expecting pizza from this little adventure. Don't make me regret opting for crust from scratch.
Thanks, see you tomorrow morning,
Diana”

July 2, 2011
“Pizza is success so far. Crust and sauce from scratch are good, hopefully this works. Hopefully the middle east appreciates this.”

July 5, 2011
“Spent the 4th of July in a cafe on "shar3 rainbow," and then went and got schwarma. I feel un-American :)”

July 7, 2011
“Leaving for our weekend trip south tomorrow morning. Supposedly I'm not supposed to post where we're going for security purposes, but honestly, there's only three places where people go in the south of Jordan, and we're going to all of them. Today is our last day with our host families though... I'm horribly sad. I'm going to visit them pretty much everyday when I'm living in the apartments when we get back.”

July 7, 2011
“Our family has declared that we are not sleeping tonight because it is our last night with the host families. I am going back and forth between sobbing and having a good time.”

July 11, 2011
“Yesterday I woke upin Wadi Rum with the beadouins. This morning I woke up in an apartment with a broken washing machine, and the bunch of sketchiness everywhere. Figures. I want my host family back :)”

July 16, 2011
“Protests at the mosque downtown yesterday. Some police used clubs on people, so it was international news. There's rumors of people hurt and dead, but I'm fine. I was at the mosque downtown yesterday, but I wasn't in a protest and I'm fine. Don't worry.”

July 18, 2011
“Arabic teacher is operating on Jordanian time, meaning she's currently one hour late and counting. Rock on, yanni.”

July 21, 2011
“Happiness is...”

July 23, 2011
“Exhaustion. But I never want to come home :)”

July 25, 2011
“When I say home home, I mean Dhahiat al Hussein. When I say home, I mean Tila al Ali. America is just being referred to as "back."”

July 27, 2011
“Woke up, and went to the Jordanian police station to try and pay our way out of getting a blood test because we overstayed our visas and broke the rules. Funny how things work here.”

July 27, 2011
“taxi min shar3 rainbow ila tila al ali, sab3a dinar??? la, shukran, m3salaama.”

(Back in America)

September 25, 2011
“Bidi al-Urdon. It's one of those days.”

October 22, 2011
“I wish that I could still use this as a reason to be tired: "I made a trip fi al-balaad and lost a small Asian girl in the fruit market and had a taxi driver who wouldn't take me home the right way, and now I'm out of shai and the hamaam is broken again and ya haraam, there goes the door handle again, and I just spent fifteen minutes stuck in the elevator with some random kid wearing boxers on his head, holding up a firecracker discussing some sort of bomb with another kind wearing a pink hijab. And then I just wanted to sit on the roof but there was some creepy kid asking whether boxer man's wife had a boyfriend, and then I wanted to go to bed but there was a fan that kept threatening to fall on my mattress, and I was just exhausted." Tisba'ala khair, world. If only I'd wake up in Tila'a al Ali tomorrow morning.”

October 28, 2011
” Priority list for the weekend: NSLI-Y app, NSLI-Y app, NSLI-Y app.”

October 29, 2011
“Sooo... anybody want to edit my NSLI-Y essays?”

October 30, 2011
“"Why do you want to study Arabic?" Why WOULDN'T anybody want to study Arabic? :) If only I could make that my entire essay.”

November 21, 2011
“Bidi al-urdon... it's one of those days.”

November 28, 2011
“Looking for full-ride scholarships for exchange programs. Found one that's two years, and somehow my mother likes that one more than the one that's just one academic year. Strange world...”

November 29, 2011
“" Indicate a person who has had a significant influence on you, and describe that influence." Oh, how I love personal statements for applications...”

December 20, 2011
“Looking through all of my Arabic books instead of doing homework :)”

December 23, 2011
“Driving out to Pennsylvania for Christmas, and then back to Chicago for New Year's with all my habibtis”

December 28, 2011
“Remember that night in Til3 al-Ali when we were joking about having a reunion for New Year's? I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE ALL COMING TOMORROW! Ba7ebek, bishofik mbukra!!!!”

December 31, 2011
“New Year's with the best people ever... And I bought pita, so life is good :)”

January 21, 2012
“NSLI-Y Interview! :)”

February 22, 2012
“Compulsively checking my email every 50 minutes :)”

February 23, 2012
“Dear UWC National Committee,
Please just tell us already :)
Thanks,
Diana”

February 23, 2012
“Got an interview for UWC! :)”

Strange, this Facebook thing. Status updates… hm… strange.

And so now, I wait. To hear about whether I get to go on NSLI-Y again. To hear about when my interview is for the UWCs, and then to hear whether I get to go to a UWC. But for these sorts of things, I suppose it’s worth it J